The google bot hasn't been to my site and my site has been up for too long i even used some of that optimization sowtware but that jus made me waste a week updating every page and by the way my site is under heavy construction so if you go and look at it most of the links wont work and i plan to have the crude stuff done by march

Get some incoming links! It only takes 1 good link to get the bot to start spidering your site.
Broken links do not help your cause either.

thanks